What does delighting in the Lord mean? It means not laying in your bed and feeling sorry for yourself. It means not living your life and just sitting and waiting for Prince Charming or for Mr. Right to come through the door. God has been giving the desires of my heart. I love to give Love. I love being one on one with others and learning about them. If you look at my work this year, that's what I have been doing. In after school I have to take one of my kids to the restroom. I have him from 2:30 until usually 5:45. When he can't get out that he is mad, sad, or glad, I am there to hug him and to bring him back to having fun. So, if the Lord brings a turn around in my work place, then why don't I believe that God will do that in my love life?